Problem Gambling Awareness Weblog

In the news: Problem gambling worse than thought

2006-03-17T17:57:00.000-08:00

Expert: 2 to 3 percent of population has a gambling problem

Figures are bad news for casino industry
By Liz Benston -- Las Vegas Sun

Wednesday, March 8, 2006

The National Council on Problem Gambling kicked off an education campaign this week by noting that 2 percent to 3 percent of Americans - or about 6 to 9 million adults - have gambling problems.
Numbers can be worth a thousand words. They also can have political and social implications. That's why the National Council's estimate is bad news for the casino industry - it's two or three times as high as the 1 percent rate often cited by the industry.
The greater the percentage of problem gamblers, the tougher it is for the gaming industry to persuade states without casinos that the economic effect of gambling - jobs, tourism, and especially taxes - more than offsets the social cost of increased exposure to casino gambling.
And in states that already allow casino gambling, such as Nevada, bigger numbers make the industry seem less like a good corporate citizen, one that pays taxes, employs folks and promotes good, clean fun, and more like the tobacco and distilling industries, which sells cigarettes and liquor that can lead to cancer, alcoholism and other social ills.

The National Council's estimate is based on the most recent original research available on gambling problems nationwide, Executive Director Keith Whyte said.

Remainder of article available at: http://www.lasvegassun.com/sunbin/stories/lv-other/2006/mar/08/566659859.html

The Places Luck Can Take You

2006-03-10T04:31:00.000-08:00

My story is about luck. You know, everyone today wishes to be lucky. Lucky enough to win the game, to get the promotion at work, to not get a speeding ticket when you're late for work, and of course to win the lottery or just your local poker game.

How much does just plain luck have to do with these things? Are some people just luckier than others? Can you increase your luck by carrying a lucky penny, rabbit's foot, or token of some sort?

I used to think these things were true. We always said that my brother was the lucky one in our family. As kids we would walk through the store together, he found a $20 bill near the register. Camping we all walked along the same log, he found the $10 bill. He was always picking up coins off the ground, and somehow we all just knew it was because he was luckier than we were. This did not stop in adulthood. When he turned 18 he bought himself a scratch ticket from the Oregon Lottery. Guess what, $500 winner.

How can one guy be this lucky?

He continued to buy lottery tickets, winning some, losing some. He bought some mega bucks, and keno tickets as well. We heard a lot more about the winning than we did the losing so I can't really tell you a percentage of wins to losses. Then video poker came into Oregon. This was a new challenge for him, one that he took on like any other, with 110% effort. Again, he started out lucky, with wins; enough for him and us to all think once again, he was just lucky.

After some time, it seemed that his luck had started to run out. Things were not going his way any more. He was losing more than he was winning, to the point of having to borrow and sell things to keep gambling, and he was passed up for a promotion at work. He continued to gamble, more than he had been to try to get his lost money back. Chasing that win, knowing that his luck would turn again. It didn't happen liked he had hoped. For a guy that was used to winning, these were some pretty hard facts to face.

He became suicidal and spoke about it to only a couple of people who didn't know what to do so they did nothing. I am not sure how long he felt this way; I know that he did write a few notes. The last one he wrote was the hardest to read. He spoke of a cruel world, (things weren't going his way anymore), he felt like a ghost, someone that no one could see, and that he couldn't see anyone else. You see, Bobby's luck took him places for a long time, but when it ran out, he lost more than his money. Before he lost his life, he lost his self respect, his self esteem, his quality of life, his love of life, and his desire to live and hope. He wanted it all to stop.
This is way too much to lose; I think gambling with these things is too much
to ask.

My point of this story is that you really can't rely on luck, you may be lucky for awhile but chances are it will run out. You hear about the good things that gambling does, the big wins, this is the other side. If you can't control it by sticking to time and money limits or if it controls your thoughts, or it is not fun any more, it is time to get help.

I have learned there are people out there that care, and that really want to and know how to help, that it is okay to talk about your gambling problem, or your family members gambling problem without feeling the shame and guilt that Bobby felt. I know that if we continue to educate people on this issue that maybe we can help others not suffer the same pain that Bobby suffered and that we are still suffering today. I have always said that the pain that my family and I have felt is sometimes unbearable, but it is nothing compared to what he must have been feeling at the moment he decided to end it. I can't imagine having that kind of pain over something that is offered as entertainment by our State and Country.

Please help us continue to share about the addiction of gambling, and the trouble it can cause.

Know that help is available. It is free, confidential and it works.

Call 1-877-2-STOP NOW.

Ronda Hatefi -Eugene, OR.
Founder Oregonians for Gambling Awareness Organization

Problem Gambling Awareness Week

2006-03-06T06:31:00.000-08:00

March 6-12 is Problem Gambling Awareness Week.

This is our chance to highlight that, yes, this is a serious problem and -- there is hope and help for problem gamblers and their loved ones. In Oregon, FREE help can be accessed for anyone concerned about a gambling problem by calling 1-877-2-STOP-NOW.

The theme of this year's Awareness Week is youth and poker. Find out more at:

www.lanecounty.org/prevention/gambling/opgaw.htm

www.npgaw.org

www.youthpoker.org

Left: Award-winning poster created by Hollis Gehrett of Eugene, Oregon's Monroe Middle School. Hollis won last year's Oregon Problem Gambling Awareness Week poster search, and her poster was printed up this year as the theme for Awareness Week throughout the state. She and her school will be honored on March 10 in Eugene. More...

NCALG Conference Update

2005-10-29T11:51:00.000-07:00

I want to start by saying THANK YOU to everyone who donated to OGAO, you made it possible for me to attend an incredible conference, one that I truly believe will have an impact on the way gambling is talked about in our Country. We met Friday morning , made our way to the National Press Club in downtown DC. What an awesome feeling to be in a place that can make things happen. We had about 25 States represented, with speakers that were so powerful it was an honor to be with them. Jeff Benedict spoke about the Tribal casinos on and off the reservation, he made some great points about how it is not only bad for communities to have off reservation casino's it is also bad for the Native Americans. They have big money people coming in, buying the land for them, fronting the money and then taking 30% of what comes into the casino. A group of people went to the Capitol Thursday and spoke with Senators about the issue, and then ask the President for a 2 year moratorium on off reservation casino's to evaluate the social, and financial costs. We are asking everyone to contact their representatives, and Senators and ask them to stand on one side of the fence or the other, either they are for or against gambling expansion. We want every State to talk about it, to have it an issue that is talked about for the next election cycle. If it is left as a non-issue, we will make no progress on stopping it.
We had 8 hours of conference on Friday, and 10 hours on Saturday. It was a lot of information to take in, but it was all very good. I brought back so much information that I haven't made it through all of it yet. To be a part of a group that has the same desire and fight as you do is amazing. I was honored to speak to the group Saturday afternoon, along with a gambler that is trying to put his life back together. I do not have enough room to paraphrase all that was talked about but I would love to share information with anyone who wants to listen. Some of the speakers were: FBI agent Brian Lynch-"Crime and Corruption"; John Stansfield (New Zealand)-"Conspiring with gambling interests to prevent real social change"; Gerald Busald (Texas)-"Compare and Evaluate" spoke about as a college math professor how he made changes to the way the lottery represents itself in adds concerning statistics. Prof. John Kindt spoke on his written Law reviews concerning all different sides of gambling. Again, there was just to much to get it all in.
Thank you again for this incredible opportunity. I know that it will help us here in Oregon make changes that we need to make.

Rev. Tom Grey is always great. I could listen to him speak all day long. He has been in this fight for 12 years, and still has the passion that it takes to continue. He has the desire and heart to work with all the different States to get them headed in the right direction, and takes the time to get to know each and every person. What an amazing man. Thanks Tom, for everything.

10th Annual Problem Gamblers Awareness Day

2005-10-29T11:23:00.000-07:00

Awareness day was a very awesome day. All the things that didn't come together for last year, came together this year. We were able to get the homing doves, (donated by Angel's Flight) and the weather was beautiful so we released them as planned. My parents, brothers, sister, neice and nephew were all there, as well as many others who needed to hear the message of hope or who were willing to share the message of hope. Being the 10th anniversary of Bobby's death, it was a very emotional day. We heard facts about the state gambling 10 years ago and now, we were offered hope from the treatment side, now offering more than we did 10 years ago. We heard from a gambler that struggled for many years and now with the support of his family and the state programs he is able to live life the way he wants to live it, as well as the ex-spouse of a gambler who told how her life has changed and how gambling affected her entire family. We were able to connect with a group from Cascade Locks, something that I am a strong believer that we need to be able to do, work together as a State not just as individuals. Lloyd Marbet spoke about what the lottery is sold as and what it has become. He is a great speaker and we were blessed to have him there. My nephew wrote a beautiful, touching poem about how Uncle Bobby is an inspiration to him.
Again, it was an incredible day. We would like to be able to pack the steps of the Capitol Building, but every year it seems that when we put it in the hands of the Lord, the people who need to hear it are there. We are looking forward to next year.

It was such an amazing feeling to have
my family, and close friends that I have made because of this issue all standing together. Thank you Clyde and Ardyce, you are awesome. Julie you know you rock; Jeff, it is great to work with you. Lloyd, I am just in awe of you. Patty, Robin and Karl, you are the reasons I continue this fight. Thanks for always being there.

Do gambling funds have state hooked?

2005-09-30T20:37:00.000-07:00

A very poignant and thought-provoking article on problem gambling from Bob Welch, columnist of Eugene's Register-Guard (published on 9/29/05).

http://www.registerguard.com/news/2005/09/29/d1.cr.welch.0929.p1.php

10th Annual Problem Gamblers Awareness Day, September 29

2005-09-28T09:08:00.000-07:00

For Immediate Release 9/28/05

PROBLEM GAMBLERS AWARENESS DAY RALLY—10 YEARS OF COMMEMORATING HOPE FOR PROBLEM GAMBLERS

Contact: Ronda Hatefi 541.688.7101

When: Thursday, September 29 from noon to 1:00 p.m.
Where: State Capitol steps, Salem

Citizens and family will hold a rally to commemorate the life of Bobby Hafemann, and to celebrate hope and help available for problem gamblers and their family members. Ten years ago, when 28-year-old Hafemann’s gambling got out of control, he lost hope and took his own life. Since then, his sister, Ronda Hatefi has made a commitment to increase awareness in Oregon about the issue of problem gambling. Founding Oregonians for Gambling Awareness Organization in 1995, Ronda is currently organizing the 10th annual rally on Bobby’s birthday, September 29, with a “then and now” retrospective of gambling and problem gambling services in Oregon. At the end of the rally, doves will be released (weather permitting) to symbolize the hope and freedom from gambling addiction.

SPEAKERS:

Ronda Hatefi, Event Organizer; President, Oregonians for Gambling Awareness Organization—will be sharing her brother’s story and her involvement in the last 10 years with helping raise awareness about problem gambling
Jeffrey J. Marotta, Ph.D., Problem Gambling Services Manager, Oregon Department of Human Services, Office of Mental Health & Addiction Services—will be speaking about the history of gambling in Oregon in the last 10 years as well as treatment services available to all Oregonians
Julie Hynes, Problem Gambling Prevention Coordinator, Lane County Health & Human Services—will be talking about prevention efforts in Oregon and how people can help others in their communities
Karl, gambler in recovery — will be sharing his story
Available for interviews:
- Youth family member of a gambler
- Other family members and loved ones

ADDITIONAL INFORMATION:

While the majority of people gamble with few or no adverse consequences, the rate of problem gambling has risen as gambling opportunities have become more available. Research shows over 60,000 Oregonian adults and an additional 10,000 teens experience problems with gambling. This growing issue affects individual problem gamblers, their families and communities, and causes enormous social, economic, and psychological costs.

Ten years ago, Bobby Hafemann and other problem gamblers had few resources to help with gambling problems. Hafemann’s sister Ronda Hatefi knows there are people who continue to need the help, but are unaware that help is available. Fortunately, more people in Oregon are seeking help for gambling problems than ever before. Of Oregon’s 1,400 gambling treatment clients in 2004, one in four had suicidal thoughts in the months prior to treatment, one in four said their gambling cost them a marriage of significant relationship, and one in three admitted to committing crimes to finance gambling. Getting help early is key to saving lives and avoiding the pain that Bobby Hafemann’s family knows too well.

Hatefi said of her efforts, “It is very important to me to let people know that there is help, it is free, confidential and it does work…My motto has not changed in 10 years, No Problem Gambler Stands Alone.”

Anyone concerned about their own or a loved one’s gambling problem can get free help by calling the statewide problem gambling Help Line at 877-2-STOP-NOW (877-278-6766). People can get more information about problem gambling at Lane County’s problem gambling prevention website, www.lanecounty.org/prevention/gambling.

Opportunities

2005-08-29T15:34:00.000-07:00

I have been invited to be a part of the first ever joining of States in a National Press conference that will be held Oct. 7th at the National Press Club. We will be asking for a 2 year moratorium, joining our voices together to stand united on an issue that is affecting so many people in our Country right now. The National Coalition Against Legalized Gambling is also having their annual conference in Washington DC that same week-end. I would love to go and represent Oregon at both of these events but I will need your help. There is a chance that I will have my hotel stay and food taken care of, but I need help with the plane ticket. If this is something that you can help me with please let me know. It is an incredible opportunity to learn from others who will be speaking and sharing their ideas on how to stop the expansion of gambling in our Country, as well as a motivation for me to keep the fight going at this important time when our Governor is expanding the opportunities to gamble in our State. This is something that I would love to be a part of, again an opportunity that I feel is to good to pass up.
Thank you.
Ronda

Youth or parent media contacts needed!

2005-08-16T14:13:00.001-07:00

We have received many, many calls from the media all over the nation who are interested in interviewing young people or parents of youth who gamble. Youth who play cards for money, or have peers that do, or parents of youth who gamble, are needed to paint the picture of the rising trend of gambling and the problems it can create.

Unlike most other issues, even alcohol or drug problems, it is actually difficult for reporters to find people to talk about gambling and the problems it can create. We hear of youth that are losing their money, borrowing, even stealing to gamble, missing school, but so far no one has been willing to talk to media. A reporter from Family Circle magazine said that it has been harder to find youth or parents to talk about teen gambling than most all other stories she has covered in about 30 years of writing.

It is important to share as much information as possible to increase community awareness about problem gambling. If interested in being a media contact, or for more information, email us or contact the Lane County Problem Gambling Prevention Program (541.682.3928). We will NOT release any names or any other contact information without permission.

Problem Gamblers Awareness Day

2005-08-04T11:24:00.000-07:00

September 29th is Problem Gamblers Awareness Day. This day is set aside by the Governor of Oregon as a day to recognize, remember and help those that are struggling with their gambling addiction or family or friends that are struggling. Our goal for this day is to let people know that gambling addiction is a real problem in our state, and that we have resourses now to help them through it. Our motto is, "No problem gambler stands alone." This is true in 2 forms; first, every problem gambler has more than himself/herself that their addiction is affecting. There is family, friends, co-workers, creditors, and others that are affected by the actions of the gambler. Secondly, we want each gambler and family member to know that they are not alone in their fight. We want to be here for them, to talk with, listen to, and guide any way possible. It is such a hidden, painful addiction that many have a hard time reaching out for help, we want to ease the pain and give direction so that recovery is in their hands, they can be in control again. Treatment in Oregon is free, confidential and it does work. The options are better today than they were 10 years ago.
We will be meeting at the Capitol Building in Salem on the front steps at 10:00am-1pm. My hope is that we will fill the steps with people that are willing and able to show support for those that need it right now. It is very important to send a message to our Governor also that we are not happy with his expansion of Lottery and Casinos in our State. Please take the time to be there, encouraging those that need help and taking a stand against expansion.

OGAO History

2005-07-26T12:39:00.000-07:00

I just wanted to give you an idea of how Oregonians for Gambling Awareness Organization began. My brother Bobby committed suicide 10 years ago this month after not being able to control his gambling. He is the 4th of 5 children in a very close, loving family. We wanted to help him, but didn't understand how deep the addiction could be.

After he passed away we wanted to help others, so we started by listening to gamblers and their family members. Rep. Lim helped us with writing a proclamation and presenting it to the Governor to make Bobby's birthday, Sept. 29th, Problem Gamblers Awareness Day. We were unable at that time to get any other help supporting our efforts, so we did many things on our own. After a long, difficult year, we were able to work with a Methodist Minister, and her church. She helped us get in contact with Rev. Tom Grey, who is the voice of National Coalition Against Expansion of Gambling. We have worked with him and many other wonderful people over the years. We are grateful to those who support us now, and are hopeful for what the future holds.

Welcome to the Problem Gambling Awareness weblog

2005-06-22T10:04:00.000-07:00

Welcome to this new weblog. Our intention is to provide updated news, information, and resources about real issues in the world of problem gambling. The source of this blog is in Lane County, Oregon, and many of the posts will reflect this locality.

Any comments about the posts? Feel free to post your thoughts on the "comments" links. New information or suggestions for this blog? Drop a line to gamblingawareness@gmail.com.

--Ronda and Julie